attended a wedding with nano. it was alright. nano looked graceful. very, in fact. i didn't know anyone and she couldn't hear anyone so we chilled together. some jokes were exchanged. my execution of her jokes will be sub par so i'll spare you. we also exchanged a lot of stories from the past. some of them were repeats just because she doesn't remember that well any more. but most of them got me thinking. although i avoid it often enough sometimes i fall into this trap of thinking. yeah so looking back it's a blessing not to be aware of things we didn't have