doctors here. ugh! i was at the hospital visiting my uncle. who. by the way. is doing so much better mashAllah say. the doctors tell him nothing. they give vague answers. and when we ask they treat us like children not able to understand. i had to actually corner this little guy and force him by questioning him without mercy into telling me what's going on. then i had to translate it into language my aunty and cousins could understand. not that that was that difficult. he's gotta have this and that and he's gotta pee this much and this is normal and this is where he's at and this is what they want to see before they let him go. nothing more. something the doctor could have done if he was considerate. you don't have to go into lengthy details. just say what happened. what's happening. and what's going to happen. basic decency. inshAllah when i'm one i'll take the minute and a half to share