why do you give? do you give to please Allah swt? do you give because you are aware it is following the sunnah and hadith of the prophet s/a/w? do you give to set an example for those around you? do you give so others will see you and approve of you? do you give to prove to yourself you are who you want to be? do you give because at that moment you know you have? do you give to relieve yourself of any burden that comes with having?