great aunties are hard to come by. alhumdulillah i've been blessed with a few. i'm not talking about aunties by default that may be my mother's age or older or have kids my age or a little younger. i'm talking about khalas [mom's sis], phupos [dad's sis], mamis [mom's bro's wife], tais [dad's older bro's wife], chachis [dad's younger bro's wife], etc. who make that extra effort or take out that extra time to be thoughtful to our needs